Yes this is true, three and a half year old (A) was dispelled from school for sexual behavior. The mother was seen crying and saying “this is impossible” and the father swore that he will write about this and send it to many Saudi news papers and said that he will call the human rights. Last week a mother came and said “I saw two boys in their class showing each other their p******”. Another mother said “they asked my daughter to take off her pants”. An aunt of another child said “I saw them behind the door kissing”. Their teacher said “this was not the first time, I saw them many times doing stuff like that”.
Yes it is shocking, how can a three year old know such stuff?? Can it be called sexual behavior???? When you hear “sexual behavior” an image pops into your mind, what pops in is not of children. In one of the reports about this incident “I saw them fully naked on the couch” said the supervisor’s assistant.Come on who would believe such crap. I mean can you really believe in a school like that seeing children naked and on a couch. One thing they don’t have a couch in their class. Ok maybe they showed each other their willies but fully naked is too much.
A three year old imitates things and such things don’t come to his/her mind. They might have seen people kissing on TV and they imitated that. I asked one of my friends about whether it’s normal for kids at this age to show their Mr. P to each other or not? She said it’s completely normal (she took a course about that at the university) she said at this age they discover things (she told me the term but I can remember it. God I forget a lot these days).
I’m not defending this behavior it 100% wrong and kids are not supposed to be doing these things. Kids are not innocent anymore. What I’m saying that they should not have dispelled the child (he is only 3 years for gods sake). You want to dig out the problem from its roots you should separate the kids (A) in one class and (M) in the other. They won’t be seeing each other because the play time hours are different and each class has its own schedule. Maybe they dispelled him because he will find himself another boy to play with wallah I don’t know.
Who do you blame for what has happened the parents or the teacher for not taking action?
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
A Three Year Old Boy Dispelled From School
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you know i always have these kind of discussions with my fiancee coz she's a psychiatrist and she do most of her researches bout kids and students...
they should've dispelled the parents!!.. a 3 year old is not completely has a thinking of his on yet
that's why we don't remember anythin before the age of 5
and even at that age we kinda have some memory flashes..
and i'm not talkin bout us now.. ask a 10 year old if he remembers being 4 or 3.. he won't remember it!! again maybe some flashes
so the point her is the parents.. leaving their son watching T.V with no supervisor and exposed to whatever the T.Vhas to offer
also their elders.. brothers or cousins
i think it's very irresponsible from the school's side to dispel the kid.. they should've taught him the right from the wrong
and also arrange some meetings with the parents to explain their mistake and how to fix it.. that's what schools do.. teach people!
Whoa thats just wierd. I think a teacher-parent conference is in order!
What happened to kids drawing on walls and jumping all over chairs and tables?
heey..
wallah i was shocked when yoy told me the first time..!!
i think they imitated someone..maybe it's t.v as you said..or parents..
what matter is that they did it =\
DAM IT'S SCARY..!
this is outrageous, the school acted absurd!
wain ga3deen!
they are children! u teach them wats right n wats wrong!
oo ba3dain the teacher is to blame cz shes responsible for the kids in the room!
Eshda3wa, why's the teacher to blame? You shouldn't expect her to have her eyes on the kids 24/7. If the teacher is the type that just lies around doing nothing, then akeed she's to blame, but what if these things were done when she was looking after another child? Gloomy, you're a teacher. Are you able to keep an eye on your students all the time?
I blame not the teacher herself, but anyone else who should've been there to help keep an eye on the students but didn't. This happens the most during recess. It's scary what kids could do during that time. Why don't they have invigilators during that break? Well, they do but these invigilators don't do their work.
The main people you've to blame are the parents. The parents themselves would be bad role models. Maybe they don't do these obscene things in front of their children, but they're not taking care of their kids at all. I've heard of numerous stories where the corrupted children were taught these acts from the maids or drivers. Wain il parents 3an 3yalhom illy are getting raped by the drivers o maids while the mom is busy going out with her friends and only seeing her children briefly?
Bleh. Stupid parents.
This is one of the shocking weird stories i heard :/
how come!!
the child shouldn't suspend from school because he still dosn't know what's right and what's wrong, he might think this is normal !
I don't know !
is there more childhood or what!
kay di
That’s a good point and its completely true we all don’t remember much before the age of 5 or maybe the age of 4 but before that its hard to say.
Maybe the kid did not see a TV show or a movie but maybe a cartoon on cartoon network (I believe its not for kids under 10).
Exactly, they should tell him whats wrong and whats right. Maybe he wont understand at first but then he will learn it eventually.
Ren Crow
EXACTLY!
You what they did they punished the teachers assistant and they cut off her salary although she is not to be blamed.
Mayoosh
Min jed its very scary and we have to do something about it. We should keep an eye on kids.
Eshda3wa
The teacher is blamed partially because she did not take any action.
Mochness
To say the truth mocha, no I cant keep an eye on each and every student its completely hard.
Your right the investigators just walk around talking and not pay attention to the kids.
You are right and that’s what my mother said. Min jed we heard many stories about maids and drivers sexually harassing kids and maybe some cousins, who knows.
Its horrible to see no innocence in children.
Swarwar
5la9 ma 9ar feh bara2ah :S
*sexually abused not harassed
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